
“Autonomous. Independent.
Self-Governing. Free.”
Sovereignty
Tantra, Sacred Sexuality & Polarity Have Blown Up In Recent Years. And That’s Great.
What isn’t great, is seeing how these practices (when used incorrectly) can actually exacerbate our feelings of unworthiness, disillusionment, suffering and pain.
Running from Responsibilities, Betraying Boundaries to “prove” Neotantric authentricity and using Sexuality as a Subtle Strategy of Manipulation is common in the Space.
And though there’s nothing wrong with sexual empowerment, at it’s heart, Tantra is not about proving ones level of attainment through Orgies, Temple Dance, BDSM, Cuddle Puddles, Unsafe Relationships, Sex Magical Sorcerey or having Multiple Orgasms Everyday.
Tantra is a system of Energetic Technologies and Philosophies.
These tehnologies build strength in our multiple bodies so that we can direct our energies in ways that help us negotiate the Rules of Embodiment more Masterfully.
Sovereign is a Multi-faceted Deep Dive into the Feminine Healing Arts. This immersion weaves together multiple Tantric Intelligences in order to alchemize our wounds and find True Sovereignty in all of our Intimacies.
This Training is For Women, Feminine-Dominants & Non-Binaries Who Feel at home In Feminine Focused healing Spaces.

THE PROGRAM
MEET Mel ONLINE for A 2 HOUR ACTIVATION TWICE A WEEK.
Our Sovereign mentorship will cover multiple empowerment and liberation modules.
Sessions are bi-weekly (twice a week) over 12 weeks and will begin in the week of September 3rd.
Each LIVE session will be 2 hours long.
There will be recordings but ALL Energy Attunements must be attended LIVE.
Our time in sessions are 80% embodied practice and 20% theory.
You will also have a range of supporting audios, videos, documents and reading lists in our membership portal should you wish to dive deeper on a particular topic. Reading lists are available as soon as you enrol.
Here's What We'll Be Learning.
OUR MODULE OVERVIEW:
MODULE 1: SEEING YOUR SOVEREIGN SELF
Our intimate relationships is where we find some of our deepest wounds — it’s also where we find some of our most powerful shadows and compulsions.
In this Module we’ll create a safe container and the unpack the minefield that is the intimate relating space by:
Defining safety, trauma and consent
Defining Tantra, Neotantra and Polarity
Highlighting our intimacy shadows and subtle strategies of manipulation
Defining and meeting our Sovereign Self
Creating safety in being Seen
Developing simple diet, movement, nervous system regulation and other lifestyle strategies to help anchor your Sovereign Self.
MODULE 2: CONSCIOUS CELIBACY & THE BEST SEX OF YOUR LIFE
I’m a firm believer that everyone should hold the keys to their own sexuality — “the best sex of your life should be with yourself”.
Getting there can be a journey — one of the tools we use to do this is Conscious celibacy.
Conscious celibacy is the practice of consciously abstaining from sexual intimacies. There are many ways to practice, and it can teach us ALOT about our wounds, addictions, energy leaks and other subtle strategies of manipulation.
All participants are invited to practice some level of conscious celibacy for at least one month of this training, with all healing and exploratory intimacies being directed only at oneself.
Practicing Conscious celibacy is recommended but not mandatory.
MODULE 3: CLASSICAL TANTRA, NEOTANTRA & POLARITY
In this module we dive more deeply into the disctinctions between Classical Tantra, NeoTantric Sacred Sexuality and Polarity. More specifically we’ll be looking at:
The main differences between these teachings.
3 Major Schools of Classical Tantra
Common Classical, NeoTantric and Polarity practices.
The pitfalls of confusing and conflating these practices.
How to find a Classical Tantric lineage that may support your personal and spiritual goals.
MODULE 4: YOUR SEXUAL BLUEPRINT & LIBIDO
Everyone has a different sexual nature with specific intimacy needs.
In this module we learn how to cultivate a healthy libido while safely discovering your true sexual blueprint beneath the guilt, shame and other conditionings.
This exploration will also consider the different sexual and reproductive health challenges that we experience during our maiden, mother, queen and crone phase as our hormones, goals and lifestyles change.
MODULE 5: MANIFESTATION, MAGNETISM & SEX MAGIC
With strong foundations set, we now learn how to use our erotic energy to create more of what you like from your feminine receptive essence.
We will also be unpacking the wounds that most disrupt our ability to be receivers. More specifically, we will be looking at:
The mother wound
The father wound
The sister wound
The brother wound
The God wound
The birth Wound
MODULE 6: EMBODYING THE ARCHETYPES - THE 8 FACES OF THE FEMININE
In this module we unpack the 8 Feminine Archetypes using dance, drama, art and song. For each archetype you will receive:
A Guided Meditation
A Simple Movement Piece
A Ritual
An Embodiment Challenge, “Date Night” or Assignment
We will also be creating healing elixirs and reconnecting with the cycles of Nature.
MODULE 7: THE ANATOMY OF INTIMACY, ORGASM & THE DARK NIGHT OF THE SEXUAL SOUL
Though pleasure (as most people understand it) is one of the lower rungs on the Tantrika ladder, it’s still an incredibly powerful tool for empowerment, manifestation and something that every feminine dominant person deserves to reclaim.
As such, in this section we will cover:
The anatomy of pleasure and orgasm
How to Self-source Eros and run your Sexual Energy
Self-pleasure rituals and audios
The shadow side of orgasm
The dark night of the sexual soul
The 3 stages of intimate relationship
MODULE 8: SEXUALING HEALING - DEARMOURING, RECONNECTING & BREAST MASSAGE
In this module you’ll learn about how the body stores sexual trauma, how it impacts our lives as well as about the tools and techniques to dearmour and reconnect your wounded spaces.
We will also be opening and reconnecting your feminine energetic power centres and practicing breast massage.
MODULE 9: SEXUAL HEALING - A FOCUS ON TOOLS & TOYS
This module highlights a range of tools that support sexual healing as well as how to select and care-take them.
It deepens the dearmouring process through LIVE in-class practices where we use tools such as wands, yoni eggs and massage to release intimate contractions.
We will also, begin the work of “Befriending your Fantasies” so that you can better understand and engage with them in an empowering way.
MODULE 10: SPIRITUAL SPINE - AN INTIMACY PERSPECTIVE
Sexual liberation doesn’t exist in a vacuum. In this module we deepen our practice and create a more inclusive, global consciousness by learning about:
The many gender identities and expressions
The different forms of conscious relationship
How ancestry impacts our sexual identity
How cultural appropriation shows up in the intimacy space
Subtle predatory behaviours in the sexual healing and Tantra space
Sexual trauma
Sexual activism
MODULE 11: CONSCIOUS RELATING, ETHICAL INTIMACY & CONSENT
Reclaiming one’s sovereignty is empowering. In this module we learn how to use that power in ways that don’t cause harm to others.
MODULE 12: GROUNDING YOUR SOVEREIGN SELF
This is something that makes Sovereign so unique. For the last 4 weeks of the training there will be no new content or theory but rather, we’ll continue to meet LIVE to:
Repeat important practices and processes so you can go deeper
Answer questions
Encourage you to catchup on any work you may have missed.
Host a powerful closing Ceremony
Our Bi-Weekly Meeting Dates Are As Follows:
IMPORTANT - THE TIMEZONES BELOW MAY NOT WORK FOR AUSTRALIA & THE AMERICA’S. IF YOU’RE FROM EITHER OF THESE PLACES AND WOULD LIKE TO JOIN THE TRAINING EMAIL JUSTBREATHE@NAMIBIA.COM TO JOIN THE WAITLIST. IF ENOUGH PEOPLE ARE ON THE LIST, WE’LL CREATE AN ADDITIONAL TIMESLOT FOR THESE TIMEZONES.
ALL SESSIONS WILL HAVE RECORDINGS.
WEEK 1: SEEING YOUR SOVEREIGN SELF; CONSCIOUS CELIBACY & THE BEST SEX OF YOUR LIFE
Tuesday, 3 September: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
Thursday, 5 September: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
WEEK 2: CLASSICAL TANTRA, NEOTANTRA & POLARITY; YOUR SEXUAL BLUEPRINT & LIBIDO
Tuesday, 10 September: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
Thursday, 12 September: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
WEEK 3: MANIFESTATION, MAGNETISM & SEX MAGIC
Tuesday, 17 September: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
Thursday, 19 September: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
WEEK 4: EMBODYING THE ARCHETYPES - THE 8 FACES OF THE FEMININE
Tuesday, 24 September: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
Thursday, 26 September: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
WEEK 5: THE ANATOMY OF INTIMACY, ORGASM & THE DARK NIGHT OF THE SEXUAL SOUL
Tuesday, 1 October: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
Thursday, 3 October: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
WEEK 6: SEXUALING HEALING - DEARMOURING, RECONNECTING & BREAST MASSAGE
Tuesday, 8 October: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
Thursday, 10 October: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
WEEK 7: SEXUAL HEALING - A FOCUS ON TOOLS & TOYS
Tuesday, 15 October: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
Thursday, 17 October: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
WEEK 8: SPIRITUAL SPINE - AN INTIMACY PERSPECTIVE; CONSCIOUS RELATING, ETHICAL INTIMACY & CONSENT
Tuesday, 22 October: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
Thursday, 24 October: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
WEEK 9: GROUNDING YOUR SOVEREIGN SELF - PART 1
Tuesday, 29 October: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
Thursday, 31 October: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
WEEK 10: GROUNDING YOUR SOVEREIGN SELF - PART 2
Tuesday, 5 November: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
Thursday, 7 November: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
WEEK 11: GROUNDING YOUR SOVEREIGN SELF - PART 3
Tuesday, 12 November: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
Thursday, 14 September: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
WEEK 12: GROUNDING YOUR SOVEREIGN SELF - PART 4
Tuesday, 19 November: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
Thursday, 21 November: 18:30 - 20:30 GMT +2
**Times may shift due to day light savings in Europe. All sessions have recordings.

“Tantra is about ending Suffering by realizing deeper Truth. Sovereignty in our intimacies is a potent way of finding Power, Freedom & Union - with others; then ultimately with Ourselves.”
- MELISSA MUKAIWA

In Addition to the LIVE Calls you will also get access to our Sovereign Membership Site Where You’ll Have Access To Recordings Of:
Educational videos and audios about the module themes
Archetypal guided meditations, movement sequences and rituals
Bi-Weekly (once every two weeks) challenges & date nights to embody the session’s theme more powerfully
Guided exploration and self-pleasure audios
A Feminine Power Centre reconnection audio
A Throat-Womb-Yoni Chakra Activation to help open your voice, magnetism and creativity
Recipes for healing fempowerment elixirs.
All audios and videos are available for you to download, keep and reuse as much as you like. All the additional content is optional.
You will also have access to recordings of all of our Online LIVES.
LIMITED slots available.

Mentorship Participants Will Also Be Eligible to attend Our Intimate Sovereign Feminine Embodiment Retreat.

YOUR TEACHER
AS SEEN ON:
Melissa Mukaiwa
is a Mindfulness, Meditation, Yoga, Relaxation & Shamanic-Egyptian Reiki Master Teacher.
She’s a Transformational Life Coach, Sacred Sexuality, Cacao Ceremony & Breathwork Facilitator; A Host, International Speaker & Speaker Trainer; A Narrative4 Story Exchange Facilitator as well as a Trauma Release Through Dance Practitioner.
Melissa is a 300 hour Bhakti Yoga Teacher (Harmonium, Mantra Chanting & Kirtan) as well as an Advanced Cathartic Breathwork Practitioner with the only Triple Board Certified Academy in the world.
She also holds an honours degree in Business Science from the University Of Cape Town with a specialisation in Marketing.
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Mel began her work as an educator in 2012. Since then her coaching and mentorship footprint has spread to 8 countries across the globe, where she’s trained thousands in person and online. She has also trained 30 mindfulness and meditation teachers as well as attuned 34 master energy healers.
Melissa’s passion for wellness and personal empowerment took root in the founding of a local community development initiative called “Just Breathe”. Since 2017, they have served more than 3000 people at their free LIVE in person community events.
In 2019 her community development work saw Melissa being invited to travel to Rutgers University in the United States as a Mandela Washington Fellow.
She is also the Founder and CEO of PR, Marketing & Creative Solutions Company, Nica Creative.
Melissa describes herself as an irreverent optimist and student-teacher to the core whose work is geared toward a singular goal:
“The Activation of Human Potential to the Betterment of Us All.”
To Recap This 12 Week Mentorship Includes:
48 Hours of Live Group Dance, Energy and Feminine Embodiment work
Access to the “Sovereign” Membership site with optional educational Videos & Audios
An Introduction To Tantric, Neotantric & Polarity Practice
A Sovereign Reading List with Some Optional Canonical Literature
Educational videos and audios about the modules and themes
Archetypal guided meditations, movement sequences and rituals
Bi-Weekly (once every two weeks) challenges & date nights to embody the session’s theme more powerfully.
Guided exploration and self-pleasure audios
A Feminine Power Centre reconnection audio
A Throat-Womb-Yoni Chakra Activation to help open your voice, magnetism and creativity
Recipes for healing fempowerment elixirs.
Access To The Sovereign WhatsApp Group to ask questions and reflect between sessions.
The Investment For This Mentorship Is:
EARLY BIRD
AVAILABLE ON OR BEFORE 15 MARCH 2024
Namibia/South Africa: N$38 000 (N$3650 p/m for 12 months)
Rest of the world: 1888 Euros (222 Euros p/m for 12 months)
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STANDARD
AVAILABLE AFTER 15 MARCH 2024
Namibia/South Africa: N$45 000 (N$4250 p/m for 12 months)
Rest of the world: 2222 Euros (244 Euros p/m for 12 months)
Custom Payment Plans Available on Request.
Let us know if you have any questions. We'd be happy to work out a way to make this happen for you.
CONTACT
Justbreathenamibia@Gmail.com.

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